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Phrase(s): take it out on someone or something
to punish or harm someone or something because one is angry or disturbed about something. • I’m sorry about your difficulty, but don’t take it out on me. • Don’t take it out on the cat.
McGrawhill's American Idioms And Phrasal Verbs
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Also, take something out on. Vent one's frustration or anger on a person or object. For example, I know you're furious about your grades but don't take it out on me. [First half of 1800s]
American Heritage Idioms